how long will it take for me to find “the one”? Consciously maybe I am not ready?

Question by TresStars: how long will it take for me to find “the one”? Consciously maybe I am not ready?
i was married before for about 11 yrs. now been single for about 4 yrs, in the 4 yrs I did date alot but was just having fun. kinda got it out of my system but now I am like when will i meet “the one”? maybe subconsciously I am just not ready for it. the state of ming and the life as of right now is not giving me that opportunity becuase maybe I am just not there yet. mentally and emotionally. I do have a bit of a hard time getting close or opening to someone but I am getting better practicing on the non the ones. haha!!!! so what if we are in a place where we are not letting ourselves be available for “the one”.

Best answer:

Answer by Blueberry Muffin
There is a lot of fish in the sea. Just throw the bad ones in the trash can. :)

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3 comments to how long will it take for me to find “the one”? Consciously maybe I am not ready?

  • Don H

    Why can there only be one?

    Love and blessings don

  • Fred F

    You have to keep your eyes and ears open.

    When you find someone that could be “the one”,
    go for it 100%.

    If it doesn’t work out, try again.

  • Sunny Fan

    As far as I know there’s no formula for finding “the one.” I don’t believe there is someone out there for everyone, at least not in any destiny type of way. I think when settling down with one person is really what you want you’ll find the best option available to you. You have to try though, don’t wait for it to fall in your lap.

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