PLEASE HELP MY FAMILY IS RIDICULING ME?

Question by Basalt: PLEASE HELP MY FAMILY IS RIDICULING ME?
PLEASE HELP, I AM REPOSTING THIS AS I AM NOT GETTING MANY ANSWERS. ACTUALLY, NONE AT ALL!! please please

Yesterday we got back from our “fun filled vacation” in Mexico. It wasn’t fun. So, it’s a little long, I would really appreciate it if you read my story.
My family and I went to visit our friend’s son. Who happens to be in jail for murdering someone. So we went in,the jail I mean and we both really hate each other. Or so I thought. I’m only 13 he is in his very early 20′s. My family talked to him and the usual bull like, “Hows it going?”. I sat back scowling the whole time. You see, 2 years ago when I last visited, all he did was ridicule me and make fun of me, and I was only what? 10? So I was forced to smile and shake his hand and thats when he handed me a stupid letter.
Turns out it was a love letter. I gave it to my dad to go throw away, since he was throwing away some bottles and stuff after we went out of the jail. He read it. It’s terrible, he was like “You are so beautiful, I miss you.” So he gave it to my mom, then little sister, who’s 10, then when we got home from Mexico, my brother. So my whole family knows about this letter. Then my bro gives it to me and says, “This is disgusting, do you know about this?” He handed me the letter I thought was long gone. I read it, and I was filled with hatred and disgust. So now, my mom my dad and my sister are always going like, “If you don’t get your act together, you just might as well get a job when you’re pregnant with ( his ugly name ) kid and live on your own.” And my mom is like, “Ha ha ha!!! I’m going to have a Mexican son in law!! Ha ha ha!!!” and then my sister is like, “Ew, we should just call ( azzhole’s name) and tell him to marry Shannon already.” Well about half an hour ago, my dad was like, “You didn’t do too good in math this year, you’re going to have to do this math book over the summer. Reading all these books is not as important as your grade. Unless you want to runaway and get pregnant with ( name’s) son.” Well that really hurt me feelings. Like, a lot. I know I haven’t been doing well in math last year and I have been trying really hard.
After he ridiculed me, I screamed, “Thats not even funny!” and then he said, “Well, it looks like thats how your future is going to be if you don’t get straightened up.”
Well, I can assure you, if I do say myself, that I am a GOOD GIRL. I’m not doing pot, like 98% of the school is, I’m on the honor roll, I’ve never gotten a detention, not a single bad word. And he’s always like, “I haven’t been impressed with you, these past years.”
That’s a total “*** you” to me when he says that. So I’m really sad and I don’t know how to handle this situation. Everyone, except my brother, is being very hurtful to me.
In fact just a second ago, my sister walked an and said, “( Gasp!) I’m gonna tell dad on you! you’re suppose to be studying math! I bet you’re emailing ( name ) aren’t you! Ha ha ha!!”

Please help me, I know if I dont get the upper hand in this stupid situation that they’re going to be making fun of me forever.
Even my mom is contemplating on writing love letters to him, saying they’re from me.

Plesse help me, I don’t know what to do and how to handle this situation. Thanks a lot for reading. It means a lot. Any helpful and non- demeaning answer is always really appreciated!

Best answer:

Answer by Hally
Tell them to knock it off its hurting your feelings. explain to them you feel bad about it and dont want anything to do with it. But just let them know how you feel and remember to explain to them you need them to stop. If you dont things will only get worse !
Good luck!

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5 comments to PLEASE HELP MY FAMILY IS RIDICULING ME?

  • Mango Smoothies are Yummy! =]

    You know what, you should really talk to them. Not even, like yell or something. Get THEIR attention. All because he has a crush on you, and you’re way younger than him doesn’t mean anything. Your family should be more supportive and you should tell them that. Tell them you dont feel like you’re getting appreciated. Stop talking to them for awhile. And if that doesn’t work, do something that will hurt their feelings. So they can see how you feel. But don’t do something pure evil. Just something so they can see how you feel, really. Family is suppose to be there for eachother, not treat eachother like crap. Tell them that. In your own words.

    Good luck <3
    –xo

  • SNC

    You should ask your brother to be on your side like if that make a jhoke at dinner or something just neither of you laugh and just look at your parents like why are you laughing at that.

    I personally don’t think they are very supportive for you and that makes me feel bad,what if that guy wasn’t in jail he probably would be at your house all the time sice it seems that your parents adore him because they like talking about him so much.

    I’m sorry for what your going through just stay positive even when its hard.

    God Bless and Good Luck.

  • ginawinabean

    you need to tell your family you’re tired of these jokes and you aren’t the one who wrote the letter. tell them it hurts your feelings and that you are trying to do well in school but nothing you do is good enough for them. if you can squeeze out a tear or two that might work too. a lot of people don’t realize how much they’re hurting someone until they start crying.

  • Dana

    damm tht sux if i were u i would try to get each of ur family members alone and try to talk to them about this and from wut i read ur a gud girl and ur family doesnt understand tht ur also extremely sensitive to ridicule.. maybe the reason on y ur not doing as well in math is because of this and u need to somehow talk to them and if tht doesn maybe send them a letter or leave a message on their voicemails explaining how this is making u feel and for them to realize tht ur their daughter, not there enemy, and tht u love them very much and u dont wanna b verbally ridiculed anymore…
    if tht doesnt work i recommend u stay away from them like dont stay home as much like hang out wit friends and then later on go home and then sleep cuz no offense but id rather stay out of the ridicule than live wit it for the rest of my life. but if u need someone to talk to maybe a therapist wud work because it would help u sort out ur problems and maybe one day u can one family member at a time and talk to them at therapy but if it gets very bad and theres nutin u can do about it u can always im me =] and gud luck on everything =]

    sn- ichiro1357

  • Maria P

    Wow sounds really bad I know I would be as mad as you if that was happening to me. But I don’t see why their joking around about it because it’s not really something to joke about. You don’t like the guy (you hate him like you said) so why would you want anything to do with him? Well one thing you could do is tell them all to stop talking about it or tell them how it’s making you feel and if they can’t reason with that then just give them the cold shoulder and ignore them whenever they talk about the guy. They should figure it out sooner or later and feel bad about but if they don’t then why let them win and make you upset and angry, You know for a fact you hate the guy, don’t want anything to do with him, and you are a good student(awesome keep doing that so in the future you can get a good career and show them that you made it). Hopefully I helped even a little just don’t let them get to you

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